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Subject: Re: Introductions

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Anna to Laura

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Date Posted: 03:52:54 01/03/23 Tue
In reply to: Laura 's message, "Re: Introductions" on 07:21:47 01/02/23 Mon

>Thank you, Amy, for welcoming me to the forum. And I
>apologize it's taken me a few days to respond. As I
>mentioned in my previous email, all three of our
>children attend a small Christian school that is
>directly connected to our church. Sarah is in 6th
>grade, Lisbeth in 5th, and Christopher in 3rd. The
>school includes corporal punishment as part of its
>arsenal of disciplinary methods. However, unlike in
>most schools, where a school leader or teacher is
>responsible for spanking the naughty child, the policy
>in our school is for a parent to be called in to
>administer the spanking him or herself. While they
>have never formally explained this policy, it is
>likely attributable to the fact that they know that
>virtually all parents in the school are committed to
>spanking bare bottom--something the church encourages
>but believes should be the purview of parents.
>
>With that backstory, up until the week before
>Christmas we had never been called in to school to
>spank one of our children. It's not much a surprise
>that when the time finally came, it would be for
>Lisbeth. While both Sarah and Christopher are
>meticulously well-behaved and obedient. Lisbeth has a
>bit of a naughty streak. She's incredibly
>lovable--she's cute as a button, has a buoyant
>personality, and is very kind and affectionate to her
>family and friends. But she also loves to talk, and
>has a hard time remaining silent during class time.
>
>At the kids school, for conduct like talking or not
>paying attention in class, there is a three-tiered
>system of punishment. The first is a simple warning to
>stop and decease immediately. The second is
>after-school detention. And the third is the much
>dreaded detention with corporal punishment. Over
>several weeks in November and December, Lisbeth
>managed to accumulate the first two. Indeed, after her
>second, i.e. detention, her father and I gave her a
>stern lecture followed by a bare bottom spanking and
>light paddling at home. Then, around two weeks ago, I
>got a call from the headmistress that Lisbeth had
>committed strike three. She explained to me what the
>procedure would be. After Lisbeth did her hour
>detention, the teacher in charge would bring her to
>the headmistress's office where both of us would be
>waiting. We would discuss the problem among the three
>of us and read some verses together from Proverbs
>about the biblical basis of spanking. Then, I would be
>expected to administer a hard spanking that would meet
>the school's criteria. The policy was a bit vague, but
>I figured that 1 minute of hand spanking and 1 minute
>with my small and light spanking paddle would suffice.
>
>At the designated hour, Lisbeth was ushered into the
>headmistress's office by her detention supervisor. She
>was clearly shaky and nervous, though the sight of
>me--even though she knew what I was there for--seemed
>to calm her somewhat. We proceeded through all the
>aforementioned stages and then the headmistress
>explained that Lisbeth had earned herself a serious
>spanking and pointed her to me. I took Lisbeth in
>hand, told her to lift her dress, and then removed her
>panties once she was already over my lap to avoid an
>unnecessary display of nudity, even if we were all
>girls. I know it must have been very humiliating for
>Lisbeth. She was used to only me, her father, her
>older sister, and her doctor seeing her rear end all
>bare. Now, even with her head a few inches from the
>floor, I'm sure she could sense the headmistress's
>eyes fixed on her unclothed bottom.
>
>I whispered in Lisbeth's ear that it was it OK to cry
>but to try to stay still and maintain her dignity
>during the spanking. Then, I began to spank. I always
>start out with 5-6 slow, especially firm spanks before
>turning to a more rapid style pace for most of the
>rest of the hand spanking, though I finish off with
>5-6 more hard, slow smacks. Then, it was time for the
>paddle. I removed it from my purse and administered
>ten cracks of the paddle to each bottom cheek, making
>sure to include her sit spots as well so that she
>would feel it the next few days whenever she tried to
>sit down.
>
>By the end, Lisbeth was bawling, but I was proud that
>she had remained relatively still during the ordeal. I
>lifted her panties back up, flipped her skirt down,
>and helped her up to sit next to me on the couch in
>the headmistress's office. I told her how proud I was
>of how she had taken her spanking and that I hoped she
>had learned a lesson from it; Lisbeth assured me that
>she had. The headmistress kindly assured Lisbeth that
>she was a very good and sweet girl who had acted
>naughtily and now had been sufficiently punished for
>her misconduct and going forth would enjoy a clean
>slate. We then prayed and recited a few biblical
>verses together, before I left with Lisbeth and
>returned home.
>
>Understandably, Lisbeth wished to spend a while on her
>own in her bedroom once we got home. She came down to
>dinner with a pillow on which to sit, though I could
>still see her wince when she tried to lower her bottom
>onto it. I excused her from after-dinner chores so
>that she could go upstairs and shower and get ready
>for bed. A little while later, I went up to her room,
>cuddled with her, and asked to see her bottom. The
>redness had faded to some extent, though there were
>still a few marks from the paddle. I went to my
>bathroom to find some aloe and rubbed it on her bottom
>to ease the pain and sting, then lifted her panties
>back up, kissed her, and told her how much her father
>and I loved her and how much God loved her. The, I
>flicked off the light. It had been a long, trying, and
>emotional day but in the end it only convinced me of
>how important and frankly godly spanking is in terms
>of curbing unwanted behavior. For the past couple of
>weeks at least, Lisbeth's behavior has been exemplary.
>We'll see what happens when she returns to school in
>earnest, but I have a feeling that a very clear point
>has been made and that she will be a much better
>listener in class going forward.
>>

>Sorry for having gone on at this length.
>
>
Laura,
In our Christian school, corporal punishment (spanking) was stopped a few years back due to a legality problem. So know,
for talking or disrupting the class, is first time is a warning, second time is a note sent home to Parents and thrd time is after school detention, which is two hours long.
All four of by teens at one time ended up in detention. That was mainly for them in grade and middle school. For the note and detention,Ithey were spanked, and i made them write a apology letter to the teacher. The letter had to include how they were disciplined at home. It only happened once for all of my kids, because handing the apology letter to their teacher, telling them they were bare bottom spanked, was worse than the spanking it self.

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