Re: Introductions -- Christian Family Discipline

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Subject: Re: Introductions

Author:
Loran

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Date Posted: 07:44:41 08/25/23 Fri
In reply to: Kristina 's message, "Re: Introductions" on 07:15:45 08/25/23 Fri

Hi Kristina. I hand spanked until both turned 6 and then switched to my hairbrush. I don’t do both. My husband started with his belt when our oldest was 7.

>Yes same with our cry room, for sure, I actually visit
>it fairly often with mine. Do you handspank usually
>before the hairbrush?
>
>Ive always seen the hand before an implement to really
>be effective even with younger children.
>
>I am able to give hand spankings more often when not
>using an implement though of course it is needed
>sometimes to add some smacks with it, spoon for
>younger kids can work well
>
>Im an advocate of hand spanking pretty often with
>younger kids when done in a loving way, and of course
>praising them when they do things well, even if its
>small.
>
>celebrate all victories no matter how small :)
>
>>Hi Kristina. Oh I sorry! Every day with my husband
>>is cherished and we share much love and yes 14 years.
>>
>>Andrew is my older boy and William is his younger
>>brother.
>>
>>My husband and I do share discipline and punishment
>>duties with my husband often being the “heavy” for
>>misbehavior in Church and for the occasional lie. I
>>step in when they sass and if chores have repeatedly
>>not been completed.
>>
>>I give smacks double their age with my brush and my
>>husband gives their age with his leather belt. We
>>don’t feel that we over spank but we do give a
>>proper spanking.
>>
>>Our Church does have a cry room and several forums of
>>crying happen there….
>>
>>>Welcome :) married 14 years or 144? or does it feel
>>>like 144 lol
>>>
>>>I would love to hear about your family, what are
>their
>>>names if I can ask? Do you and hubby share discipline
>>>duties?
>>>
>>>would love to hear more about how it is done there.
>>>Does your church have a room parents use for a "come
>>>to Jesus meeting" with their children if needed?
>>>
>>>Feel free to talk here or email anyone who shares and
>>>welcomes it, myself included.
>>>
>>>Happy to see this place grow again
>>>
>>>>Hi to everybody! I’ve been reading in here for
>>some
>>>>time and found the courage to join.
>>>>
>>>>I’m a 36 year old mom to 2 boys who are 10 and 8
>>and
>>>>happily married for 144 years.
>>>>
>>>>Mr husband and I both come from loving Christian
>>>>families and we were both raised in the Church,
>love,
>>>>family and when needed a proper spanking.
>>>>
>>>>I hope to learn and to contribute!
>>>>
>>>>>Lets use this thread for Introducing ourselves and
>>>our
>>>>>families.

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: Introductions	Kristina	07:48:55 08/25/23 Fri