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Subject: Re: New thread to talk about our parenting and some questions!

Author:
Uncle Bob

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Date Posted: 10:39:08 11/29/23 Wed
In reply to: Elizabeth 's message, "Re: New thread to talk about our parenting and some questions!" on 02:30:24 08/27/23 Sun

Elizabeth -- your methods are very uch like ours and I and my wife applaud you and your husband. Our girls are 17 and 14 and like you, we remove all of their clothes before a spanking, and the lecture. This is how God wants them to be -- bare and open to the correction. Our son Bobby,10, is soemtimes allowed to stay and our closr family and our pastor have also been here several times when one of the girls has earned a spanking. No matter -- all must come off before the talk.
How old are oyur girls, if I may ask, and how do they respond to full nudity?

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>>I do have some questions to spark discussion!
>>
>How often do your children need discipline?
>
>All of my children require regular discipline. The
>younger ones are spanked more often, but all have a
>weekly behaviour meeting each Friday evening. This is
>not a maintenance spanking as we discuss behaviour
>over the week before I or my husband will decide if a
>spanking is due for the week.
>
>What role does prayer or your faith play in discipline?
>
>My faith is at the heart of everything I do. Spanking
>is the biblical punishment for children so that is why
>it is used in our household.
>
>is there a routine there or just bare and spank?
>
>Yes, all spankings follow a routine. It is better for
>the parent spanking and better for the child being
>spanked. Once the misbehaviour is established and a
>spanking decided upon, then if we are not already
>there, we will go to the study where the child will
>have all clothes removed. The errant child must stand
>fully naked while I lecture them on their
>misbehaviour. Once the lecture is complete then they
>must submit to their spanking. Mostly this is over my
>knee with a small spanking paddle. For more serious
>offences, our "rod of correction" is a cane. This is
>not used frequently, and only from age 10 upwards.
>When receiving the cane, the child must bend over the
>arm of the small sofa we have in the study.
>
>>How does everyone handle public naughtiness?
>
>I deal with it by using verbal warnings and spanking
>once we return home.
>
>>Does your church have a place parents can discipline?
>
>Our church does not have such a place.

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Re: New thread to talk about our parenting and some questions!	UncleBob	12:21:01 12/10/23 Sun