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Subject: Re: New thread to talk about our parenting and some questions!

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Lianne

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Date Posted: 15:18:43 12/22/22 Thu
In reply to: Anna 's message, "Re: New thread to talk about our parenting and some questions!" on 06:59:48 12/22/22 Thu

Anna my last spanking was from mom at 20. Just before I moved out. Was going off to college. I am sorry to hear about your husband. You seem to have raised them well and he would be proud.

I would say it averages two times a week for my children, sometimes more. We always pray after a discipline session.

My routine, they have to stand hands on head for the talk or lecture, as i take off clothes from lower half. Then over my knee for a long does of hand and finish with some brush spanks. Usually corner after, then we talk as I offer comfort

When in public, a swat or two if i can and a notice theyre on notice, and i spank at home.

Some parents use the room for crying babies or an empty classroom to give spankings at my church.

How often do your children need discipline?
>What role does prayer or your faith play in discipline?
>is there a routine there or just bare and spank?>
>How does everyone handle public naughtiness?
>Does your church have a place parents can discipline?

>Kristina
>Before my husband and I got married, we discussed how
>we would raise and discipline our children. We were
>both brought up in the Christian schools and church.
>We were both spanked growing up, even past our teen
>years. His last spanking was from his Dad for driving
>and drinking underage at the age of 19. My last
>spanking was at the age of 21, one before our wedding
>for sassing and back talking Mom. We were both 21 when
>we got married.
>We decided that the discipline we received from our
>Parents did us good and that we would raise our
>children in the same way. Unfortunately my husband
>was killed in a auto accident when the kids were still
>toddlers. I decided to still raise the children in the
>Christian church and that spanking would still be
>given to my children.
>I started over the knee spanking when they each
>reached the age 4 with hand only. When each reached
>the age of 7, I started using one of those fly back
>paddles that had a ball attached to it. At the age of
>12, I started using the back of my hair brush and when
>they turned 14 and still using a wood paddle that I
>bought at our church.
>As for as rituals when giving a spanking, Until they
>reached the age of 12, I would undress them from the
>waist down. Once they were 12, they were made to
>undress in front of me as I lectured them and that is
>still in place today. They are then helped over my
>knee were they receive a thorough hand and paddle
>spanking, (age appropriate). Now that my daughter are
>19 and 16 and my sons are 17 and 15, spankings are not
>as common as they were when they were younger.
>My 16 yr old daughter, I would say right now is
>spanked the most for her attitude, backtalk and
>sassing. She has been averaging a spanking every two
>to three weeks. All four know that as long as I am
>supporting them and they live under my roof, I will
>not hesitate to spank them no matter their age.

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