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>Hullo Samantha > >I also find the cane very effective in disciplining my >boys. We call it the rod as in the Bible, and >producing the rod invokes a frisson of nervous >apprehension in the boy knowing he's going to get a >serious punishment this time, not just the hairbrush. > >It seems that your daughter was obedient and compliant >in getting into position over the back of the chair >for the cane, but found she could not maintain the >position for long enough due to the unaccustomed >painful sting of the cane which she needs to feel now >because of the deterioration in her behaviour. > >As I see it, she has not yet had the full punishment >you intended to give her and she deserved. Do you >think you should resume that punishment as soon as >possible so she does not think she got away with it? > >As for holding your daughter in position, I suggest >this which works for me. Sit yourself on the bed or on >an armless chair. Spread your legs open. Get your >daughter to bend over one of your legs and then >squeeze your legs together gripping her legs so that >she cannot move them. Then hold her two wrists >together with one hand while you cane her with the >other hand. > >You will not be able to get as much swing on the cane >as the method you tried, but you will have her fixed >in position so you can give her a more lengthy caning. > >Just out of interest, how many strokes of the cane did >you give her before abandoning the punishment the >previous time? And how many strokes did you intend to >give her? > >I see that you have her naked for the spanking? Does >she strip herself willingly? >Is there a ritual? Does she have to stay naked before >and after the spanking? > >Do let us know whether my suggestion worked. > >>My name is Samantha, and I am very pleased to meet >>you. I am a mother to a 11 year old girl. Since her >>earliest days she has been brought up with spankings. >>Lately her behaviour has become unacceptable, and I >>have been looking for a solution to change that. >> >>My dear friend at church, an older lady in fact, >>advised me to use an implement on my daughter's >>bottom. She has told me that my hand spankings are >>simply not severe enough now that my daughter is >older. >> >>I have done a lot of research, and I have decided to >>use the cane after hand spanking. >> >>Yesterday I have given it a try, but it is not working >>as well as I have thought it would. >> >>As usual I have taken off my daughter's clothes, and I >>hand spanked her for quite some time. I have >>instructed her to bend over the back of the chair, and >>rest her hands on the seat. I had thought that this >>position would be feasible, but I have not taken into >>account just how much the cane would have stung my >>daughter. >> >>She followed my instructions, but when I have given >>her a first stroke she instantly straightened up and >>covered her bottom with her hands. I had to put her >>back into position over, and over again after each >>stroke. With each stroke it was becoming harder to do >>so, because she did not want to be punished any >longer. >> >>Half way through I decided that it was not working, >>and her punishment is on hold. >> >>Can you recommend me a better position to put my >>daughter in, or do you have any tips how to keep her >>in position? >> >>Thank you for consideration. I have to say that I am >>pleased with the cane otherwise. Finally I am getting >>a sincere reactions out of my daughter.

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