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>It sounds like your sister really needs you to mentor >her in learning to discipline Julia. I would suggest >that you "team up" with her to start the process. You >could coach her giving the first spanking and then >supplement it with a spanking that demonstrates how to >do so in the future. She probably will need more >coaching and the addition of your supplementary >spanking for some time until she develops the >self-confidence to do so on her own. > >>Hello all, >> >>I have a question, and a very important meeting ahead >>of me. To tell you about myself, I’m Isabella a mom >>to 14 year old son, who still needs to be spanked >>frequently. I believe that my spanking is as >>straightforward as it gets. Always on bare bottom, >>with my hand, and then with the oak hairbrush. Many >>hugs afterwards. My son is horrified being spanked. >>It’s embarrassing for him, and I admit, my spankings >>are long and painful. >> >>I have a much younger sister who has 9 year old >>daughter, and she does not spank her. As a matter of >>fact, the discipline in their house is almost >>non-existent, and Julia takes an advantage of that. >> >>Let me tell you why we are so different in our >>discipline methods. I had been raised by a spanking >>mother. Hand, and hairbrush on my bare bottom. I had >>been spanked between ages 5 to 16, where I had gotten >>my last spanking. My sister had been 6 at the time, >>and it’s funny because she had gotten her first, >>official, bare bottom, over the mom’s lap hand >>spanking. Following year, I believe she had a round >>over mom’s lap almost every week. It was quite >>typical. At 17, because I used to look after my sister >>often and she did not listen to me, mom allowed me to >>spank her myself. At first, I was holding back, but I >>quickly learned that my merciful approach resulted in >>poor discipline. Progressively I spanked my sister >>longer and harder, more often too. The situation >>lasted for 2 years. Our parents died in a car >>accident. I could not get a custody of my sister being >>19 myself. Our aunt took us under her wing. It was >>difficult time for both of us, especially my 9 year >>old sister. >> >>Everything changed about our lives. Discipline as >>well. My mom had been the only one who had spanked >>among our family. My aunt did not spank my sister. She >>forbade me from spanking her too. After our tragedy my >>sister became reserved, and she rarely got into any >>trouble. There was a naughty period in her life, and >>my aunt solved it with lots, and lots of talking and >>taking away her privileges. >> >>Now, my sister is hesitant to spank Julia. The >>spanking in her own life stopped abruptly, and she >>cannot admit that it was good for her. She vaguely >>remembers it all. Julia is a sweet, lovely girl but >>she is also a brat. Always in trouble. Nothing works >>on her, and I have been having a hard time convincing >>my sister that she needs to be spanked. Preferably >>with the hairbrush already. There was an incident at >>her school. Julia has gotten in a fight and scratched >>her classmate’s cheek badly in the process. Well, >>girls always have hated each other, but the situation >>has been an eye opening moment for my sister. >> >>It’s a touchy subject, and I want to write a lot of >>notes for my sister and explain her everything. I >>worry that otherwise I could have skipped something >>important. After years spanking is a day like any >>other for me and I do not need to think a lot about >>it. I thought about asking other people how my sister >>could have spanked her daughter. I will be honest with >>you I don’t have friends nor family who use >>spanking, and you never know, maybe I will learn a >>thing or two myself. >> >>I would love to spank Julia myself, to show the ropes >>for my sister, but I truly believe that such an >>important first spanking is mother’s responsibility. >>I just hope that my sister will agree to my proposal >>and do everything right. >> >>I know that my sister lacks knowledge in spanking, but >>also a proper lecture. One that is done calmly from a >>position of authority. I hope to include my process in >>steps, and I thought that having a greater perspective >>would be nice too. By the end of it I want my sister >>to know how to lecture, bare, spank, and cuddle >>afterwards with her daughter. I have always been >>spanking my son in bedroom, so although my sister >>could have heard his screams on few occasions, she has >>never gotten to witness it. >> >>If you have any advice that would be great. If you >>could have written how you would have dealt with Julia >>that would be even better. I would love to hear how >>you lead from step to step resulting in a properly >>spanked bottom, and brighter future. >> >> >>Thank you all, have a good day.

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