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Date Posted: 09:59:16 01/26/24 Fri
Author: Derek (Dad)
Subject: Introducing our two sons (13yo, 15yo) to diaper discipline

My wife and I have read about diaper discipline for a few years now, but never tried it out. We didn't have many behavioural problems with our two boys (at least, none that couldn't be solved with the usual spanking and grounding). But recently things have changed. Our 15yo (Peter) was found selling cigarettes from his bag at school. We don't know where he got them from, but we were mortified. Worse, he came home from a party one day last month, clearly drunk. No amount of talking or punishment seemed to make him show remorse. He just complained constantly that we were being bad parents and that we should be giving him more freedom and letting him experiment. We told him that we weren't going to let him put himself in danger selling cigarettes and getting drunk at parties. Who knows what sort of boys he's been hanging out with.

Unfortunately, our 13yo (Chase) has picked up some bad habits from his big brother. He used to be so well behaved, but now he talks back constantly and ignores our instructions. We're at our wits end dealing with these boys. We know that boys will be boys, but no amount of punishment seems to work on them anymore. Add in that both boys have been doing worse and worse at school, my wife and I realised something needed to be done.

About two weeks ago, my wife and I snapped. Chase threw a temper tantrum because we didn't get him the right game for his Nintendo. After all him and his brother have put us through, we decided something drastic needed to change. As I mentioned, my wife and I have read about diaper discipline for a few years now, so after a serious discussion that night, we decided it was the only way forward. The next morning (Saturday), we called our boys into the living room. We informed them that since they had both been acting so immaturely and treating us so disrespectfully, that we would be taking away their toilet privileges and putting them back in diapers full-time. No 'if's, no 'but's, both boys now have to wear diapers 24/7, both boys have to use them to pee and poop, and both boys have to wait patiently until a parent is available to change them. They are no longer permitted to use the toilet under any circumstances. Both boys have to remain naked at home other than their diaper. This is mostly for practicality - we can make sure they're wearing their diapers, easily see if they've wet themselves, and so on. But it also has the benefit of adding some additional humiliation. Chase in particular is quite self-conscious about his body, so we hope being kept topless will have a good effect on him. Both boys are now fed a baby-appropriate diet. Gone are the expensive (and never appreciated) steaks and pizzas they used to get, from now they'll learn to love eating mushy peas, fruit puree, and milk with every meal. We've taken away both boys' phones and Nintendos. They don't need them. They're more than welcome to play football or basketball out in the yard after school, or take up drawing or music (Chase already plays guitar, we've been encouraging him to play more). Or invite friends over - but we made it clear that the diapers don't come off (nor do they get to wear clothes) just because guests are present. Of course they still wear clothes at school, we cannot avoid that, but they now have to wear a diaper under their clothes.

They threw a fit when we told them. Peter looked like he'd seen a ghost. They told us we were the worst parents ever, and that they'd be calling social services, and so on and so on. But after a stern talking to, both boys were stripped, spanked, and put into their first of many diapers. We gave them an ultimatum: every 12 months we would review their behaviour and school grades individually. If satisfactory, we would consider restoring their toilet privileges and let them wear normal clothes again. So far, we haven't seen any remorse - we're still in the 'sulking' phase. The boys' first week diapered at school was tough, they told us that by the end of the day the whole school knew they were wearing diapers under their pants (it's hard to miss the bulge and crinkling sound), and that they they've been bullied ever since. I'm sure the teasing will die down soon enough though.

Our set-up is pretty basic at the moment. We usually change both boys at the same time on the kitchen table. Both boys were very embarassed at first about getting into diaper position and letting Mom and Dad see their penises and anuses on full display. To be fair, we hadn't quite realised either just how humiliating and revealing the diaper position would be, but we think the embarassment just adds to the punishment. It's hard for Peter in particular - at 15 he thinks of himself as a 'big boy', but now my wife likes to play with his (not so big) penis while changing his diaper.

I think I've written enough for now, but I want to keep updating you all here on our adventure going forwards. It's still early days - Chase and Peter are still getting over the shock of having to piss and shit themselves when they feel the urge to go. We put them on some very mild laxatives at first so that they would learn not to hold it in, but even after only 2 weeks they've learned to just go when they need to go, even if they have to wait a few hours to be changed.

There seem to be a lot of experienced diaper discipliners on this forum, so please do let me know if you have any tips or advice for us, or even just any similar experience diapering young teenage boys! My wife and I are excited to give this a go and see how it can help our boys, and we want to do everything as correctly as possible. We'd love to hear from you all. :)

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