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>>My wife and I have read about diaper discipline for a >>few years now, but never tried it out. We didn't have >>many behavioural problems with our two boys (at least, >>none that couldn't be solved with the usual spanking >>and grounding). But recently things have changed. Our >>15yo (Peter) was found selling cigarettes from his bag >>at school. We don't know where he got them from, but >>we were mortified. Worse, he came home from a party >>one day last month, clearly drunk. No amount of >>talking or punishment seemed to make him show remorse. >>He just complained constantly that we were being bad >>parents and that we should be giving him more freedom >>and letting him experiment. We told him that we >>weren't going to let him put himself in danger selling >>cigarettes and getting drunk at parties. Who knows >>what sort of boys he's been hanging out with. >> >>Unfortunately, our 13yo (Chase) has picked up some bad >>habits from his big brother. He used to be so well >>behaved, but now he talks back constantly and ignores >>our instructions. We're at our wits end dealing with >>these boys. We know that boys will be boys, but no >>amount of punishment seems to work on them anymore. >>Add in that both boys have been doing worse and worse >>at school, my wife and I realised something needed to >>be done. >> >>About two weeks ago, my wife and I snapped. Chase >>threw a temper tantrum because we didn't get him the >>right game for his Nintendo. After all him and his >>brother have put us through, we decided something >>drastic needed to change. As I mentioned, my wife and >>I have read about diaper discipline for a few years >>now, so after a serious discussion that night, we >>decided it was the only way forward. The next morning >>(Saturday), we called our boys into the living room. >>We informed them that since they had both been acting >>so immaturely and treating us so disrespectfully, that >>we would be taking away their toilet privileges and >>putting them back in diapers full-time. No 'if's, no >>'but's, both boys now have to wear diapers 24/7, both >>boys have to use them to pee and poop, and both boys >>have to wait patiently until a parent is available to >>change them. They are no longer permitted to use the >>toilet under any circumstances. Both boys have to >>remain naked at home other than their diaper. This is >>mostly for practicality - we can make sure they're >>wearing their diapers, easily see if they've wet >>themselves, and so on. But it also has the benefit of >>adding some additional humiliation. Chase in >>particular is quite self-conscious about his body, so >>we hope being kept topless will have a good effect on >>him. Both boys are now fed a baby-appropriate diet. >>Gone are the expensive (and never appreciated) steaks >>and pizzas they used to get, from now they'll learn to >>love eating mushy peas, fruit puree, and milk with >>every meal. We've taken away both boys' phones and >>Nintendos. They don't need them. They're more than >>welcome to play football or basketball out in the yard >>after school, or take up drawing or music (Chase >>already plays guitar, we've been encouraging him to >>play more). Or invite friends over - but we made it >>clear that the diapers don't come off (nor do they get >>to wear clothes) just because guests are present. Of >>course they still wear clothes at school, we cannot >>avoid that, but they now have to wear a diaper under >>their clothes. >> >>They threw a fit when we told them. Peter looked like >>he'd seen a ghost. They told us we were the worst >>parents ever, and that they'd be calling social >>services, and so on and so on. But after a stern >>talking to, both boys were stripped, spanked, and put >>into their first of many diapers. We gave them an >>ultimatum: every 12 months we would review their >>behaviour and school grades individually. If >>satisfactory, we would consider restoring their toilet >>privileges and let them wear normal clothes again. So >>far, we haven't seen any remorse - we're still in the >>'sulking' phase. The boys' first week diapered at >>school was tough, they told us that by the end of the >>day the whole school knew they were wearing diapers >>under their pants (it's hard to miss the bulge and >>crinkling sound), and that they they've been bullied >>ever since. I'm sure the teasing will die down soon >>enough though. >> >>Our set-up is pretty basic at the moment. We usually >>change both boys at the same time on the kitchen >>table. Both boys were very embarassed at first about >>getting into diaper position and letting Mom and Dad >>see their penises and anuses on full display. To be >>fair, we hadn't quite realised either just how >>humiliating and revealing the diaper position would >>be, but we think the embarassment just adds to the >>punishment. It's hard for Peter in particular - at 15 >>he thinks of himself as a 'big boy', but now my wife >>likes to play with his (not so big) penis while >>changing his diaper. >> >>I think I've written enough for now, but I want to >>keep updating you all here on our adventure going >>forwards. It's still early days - Chase and Peter are >>still getting over the shock of having to piss and >>shit themselves when they feel the urge to go. We put >>them on some very mild laxatives at first so that they >>would learn not to hold it in, but even after only 2 >>weeks they've learned to just go when they need to go, >>even if they have to wait a few hours to be changed. >> >>There seem to be a lot of experienced diaper >>discipliners on this forum, so please do let me know >>if you have any tips or advice for us, or even just >>any similar experience diapering young teenage boys! >>My wife and I are excited to give this a go and see >>how it can help our boys, and we want to do everything >>as correctly as possible. We'd love to hear from you >>all. :) > >Wow, sounds like you really hit the ground running. >Growing up, I sort of got the impression it was >illegal to wear diapers after you were a baby. Like it >felt ingrained that even if they didnt look >uncomfortable, you were supposed to hate them anyways >and never use them again. >So it's interesting to hear from other perspectives >who have no hangups about using diapers well after >potty training. What did you think when you first read >about diaper discipline, did it surprise you or sound >like something you could ever fathom doing? I'm >guessing the kids had never heard of the idea or known >anyone else to get it until you sprung it on them. >What kind of diapers did you use and how did you >acquire them so fast? >I do hope by now the other kids at school are more >understanding. Did you talk to the school ahead of >time or make arrangements where they can go get >changed? >I suspect that without being allowed to wear anything >over their diapers at home, they won't want to invite >anyone over. I do think they should still see friends >and interact with other kids their age, just obviously >not the ones they smoked with and got drunk. Do you >have any close family friends or kids from school you >know the parents well, and could set up a playdate. >Make sure the friends know that while respectfully >asking questions is allowed, teasing is not. You dont >want them to become isolated and withdrawn. They >should still do most of the stuff teens their age do, >minus the parts that got them in trouble. >Hopefully, they get over the shock and sulking phase >soon, realize it isnt the end of the world for them >and be more obedient. Im sure you've reassured them >you love them both very much and given lots of cuddles >but you could also offer a night out for pizza or a >time at their favorite activity center for cooperating >with their diaper changes. I am curious why you >decided to start this for 12 whole months before they >get a chance to earn potty privileges back. That has >to feel like an eternity to kids that age and I wonder >if a shorter time might give them more encouragement >to shape up. >There isn't necesarily a most correct way but I think >you definitely want them to feel like their life isnt >over, they just have a constant reminder to behave on >their butts, and while you now will spend more time >with them, they should feel open to share more of what >they're feeling or reflect on why they were acting out >so much recently.

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