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Subject: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Marcey [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 06:18:36 03/14/25 Fri If you witnessed a spanking, what was the focus of your interest and gaze? I usually centered my attention on their faces. Before the spanking started there was a look of fear and worry. With the first few smacks that changed to shock on how much it was hurting. Then came the frantic look of pain as they twisted and turned and first tears appeared. Eventually tears and snot were everywhere as the look of agony took over. When they were finally let up, my focus during their spanking dance was what was bouncing around, particularly on my brothers. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Jan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:38:12 03/14/25 Fri I never witnessed a spanking but I would probably concentrate on the face [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:03:35 03/14/25 Fri Interesting question. I focus on three things. First, the face, when it can be seen, of the one getting it. Second, the spanking itself. The smacks, the resulting bounce back, howling. Third the face of the spanker as they apply hand, brush, paddle, or strap. If someone else is present, perhaps even helping by holding hands, ankles, I also am interested in their reaction as the punishment proceeds. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:47:26 03/14/25 Fri Those are good points. My parents always had a stern look on their faces while administering a spanking. But my Aunt always had an evil grin on her face while she set fire to someone’s butt. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Intrigued to Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:55:13 03/14/25 Fri Marcey, can you tell us about one or two such spankings you saw your aunt give? Just describe what happened etc? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:51:03 03/14/25 Fri Pretty much the same as my parents. You took off your clothes and were given a short lecture. Then over their lap for first a hand spanking and then the hairbrush (or bath brush if you really were in trouble). Finally you were let up and allowed to dance a bit (but not rub your butt) before you had to stand against the wall. The only difference was my Aunt had an evil smirk or grin on her face while she was administering the spanking. I am sure she enjoyed it a bit but I don't think she ever gave spanking that was not deserved. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Intrigued to Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:55:07 03/14/25 Fri Perhaps I misunderstood. I meant one you watched her give someone else, and what you saw in her face and faces of the recipient as it was happening. I enjoy. your posts by the way. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:42:06 03/14/25 Fri There was always a look of fear in the face of whomever was going to be spanked. The boy would often have red faces too and a few tears beforehand were not uncommon. It was a look of panic once they were over her lap waiting for her to begin. Everyone knew that it was going to hurt a lot but when the first spanks arrived there was a look of shock on their faces because you always seemed to forget how much it hurt. I think everyone I watched pretty much kept their eyes looking at the floor as they did not want to see who was watching. The few times anyone glanced at me it was a look of pain and anguish. Tears and snot would be evident on everyone who was spanked. There always was howling, crying and some pleading and begging but that was all ignored. The hand spanking lasted about two minutes before she switched to the brush. That just increased the howls and crying and usually had the person begin to kick their legs. She just had a smirk or evil smile on her face the whole time the spanking was given. The hairbrush spanking lasted another couple of minutes before the offender was let up and did the spanking dance. Everyone was allowed to jump around a bit before they were put against the wall for about a half hour to cry everything out. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Intrigued to Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:50:52 03/14/25 Fri She sounds very serious to say the least. What age range were those that got it from her? Boys and girls? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:39:18 03/14/25 Fri Oh…probably from maybe 5 to 18 or so. She has two boys and a girl and I have one sister and two brothers. We would usually visit for about one week a year at her place. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:50:30 03/14/25 Fri If we are talking a boy I was looking at his penis, face and bottom. One of my favorite parts the unveiling when mom took down the undies was the best part. I could sense the embarrassment and see his extremely red face and when that his hard boner was exposed well, let's just say he was completely horrified and humbled by it. Boy spankings to me were the best. I only had 1 brother but I had male cousins as well, some were embarrassed by boners and erections, then I had a cousin who had a small one and he was pretty conscious about that too. So either way fun for me. My sister's spankings could be fun too. Their faces were telltale signs and they'd didn't like the unveiling/baring much either. Neither did I when I was the victim but when it was someone else I took some delight for sure. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Intrigued to Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:30:40 03/14/25 Fri I seem to recall you telling a story about your older sister that would fit in this new thread -- when she was out with a boy she was not supposed to be with I think? Would you mind re-telling here? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:08:32 03/14/25 Fri I agree that watching boys was the best. In addition to their anatomical issues the boys I watched had other great responses. They would try to show off how brave and macho they were until the hairbrush or better yet bath brush was applied to their backside. Then they went from being tough to a crying little boy begging mommy to stop and kicking up a storm. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Alfred22 for Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:42:39 03/15/25 Sat There was a Double Bubble gum cartoon about how an artist and a mom could both change a smile to a frown with one stroke of a "brush". I suspect your tough guy boy relatives could barely hold out past three licks with a bathbrush. The length of the handle makes the spanking end go really fast with just a flick of the wrist. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:53:28 03/16/25 Sun I don’t think you can apply this to everyone, but my brothers were much more animated once the brush started its work than I or my sister. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:17:39 03/18/25 Tue You and your sister were very strong and, I would add, courageous. Staying less animated than your brothers must have required composure and effort. Never easy when wooden spanking surfaces are landing flat on your bare bottom. And, let's face it, the quieter you are, the harder you are going to get it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Intrigued to Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:55:36 03/15/25 Sat So then about the "brave, macho" boys; as they got into their late teens and the girls did also; who held up longer? Who put on a louder more desperate show the older guy teens or the older girl teens? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Larry-G to Vicki [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:07:45 04/11/25 Fri As the one being spanked I can relate to the on the opposite end. I didn't have to many witnesses spankings but a few. My mom would Insist on spanking me naked. Once my pants or whatever I was wearing at the time and my underwear came off. My mom's first focus was on my front, then as I was getting lectured her look moved to my face but would also go back down. In my early teens while removing my clothes and standing there during the lecture. This would occasionally cause and involuntary erection which would make me twice as embarrassed. I had a a few witnessed spankings by my aunt and cousin. They would lock on my front which would cause an erection. During the spanking of corse the focus would be on my bare butt. This was worse IF I had to bend over because I am sure the focus was on the butt and genitalia in full view. This embarrassment definitely added to the spanking. After the spanking I would be usually hop up and down with the spanking dance. At that point I didn't care but those who witnessed it enjoyed the view of my front bouncing up.and dow. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:37:07 03/14/25 Fri I've witnessed a few spankings. My eyes go to the bottom that's being punished. It's shocking to see a pale body fully nude with just the upturned spank spots so blazing red it's like they are two shining beacons that could be seen from space. There's nothing like a really really red behind to see who was a bad boy or girl that day. I also look at the feet, which can have a body language all their own. After the spanking, it is always very interesting to see the reaction, as it shows how the one in trouble feels about their punishment, and how hard they try to look tough about it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Brian [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:42:06 03/15/25 Sat I'm 16. I still get spanked but I get it in private. My stepsister is 14 and not so lucky (my stepdad spanks her in the living room but my mom won't let him spank me in front of anyone). I've also seen my cousins (a 13 and 15 year old girl) get it. I've seen a male cousin get it too. With the guy I'm straight I honestly look away. But the girls. I do not look away LOL. Two of them are spanked naked most of the time I love watching their breasts bounce. I watch corner time too. And during the pre-spanking part they're just standing their naked. I love it. I mean of course I stair at their vagina and breasts. Like that's the point right? They're on display in part at least for me. I just sit there and get a real good look at their bodies. Its a lot of fun because they face forward sometimes in corner time and I get to see everything. I talked to my uncle and said I felt bad staring and he was like "Nonsense stare away. It's part of the punishment." [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Jan to Brian [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:48:29 03/19/25 Wed Hi Brian, I'm 16 as well, also spanked with a leather strap and yes, fully nude. I don't have any siblings so the being spanked in front of siblings thing doesn't happen here. My comments on you're enjoying the girls being fully nude. I understand you being a guy and given the opportunity you have, of course you are gonna stare. However, I still think it is just awful and unfair. You should also be getting it fully nude in the living room as well. I hope you realize just how terribly awful this is for your stepsister and cousins. If that were me, I would just absolutely DIE!!!!!!!!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Brian [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:42:30 03/21/25 Fri I mean I get what you're saying you're ok. But yeah i think they deserve it really. And me? No world where I think not being spanked naked in front of my sisters is unfair. No freakin' way. I'm totally cool with that not happening. I do not feel bad about that lol. I always think like. Sure spankings are fair. I'd probably spank my kids. Maybe lie my sisters get it it seems to work. But yeah spankings are fair for other teens but Brian shouldn't be spanked. I am not a fan of me being spanked at all haha. I do always feel lucky when they get it. I would hate to be them. But sure don't mind seeing it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Stelter [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:22:40 03/20/25 Thu Well, also the bum, as it is driven into the broad by the blows and becomes red and redder and redder, has its visual attractions. But basically I agree with you: it is the face that expresses the state and psychological development of the punished person during the spanking. However, you have forgotten one state. The stubborn, defiant ‘I can take it this time!’, which melts like butter in the sun after a few, or sometimes many, blows. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Itringued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:59:33 03/20/25 Thu Stelter, I grew the face is perhaps the most interesting to observe. Who have watched get it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Itrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:05:32 03/20/25 Thu I meant to say "I agree" no "grew" lol [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Stelter [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:35:11 03/20/25 Thu You mean when I was young with my siblings and me? Or later in, well, let's call it ‘adult education’? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:37:16 03/20/25 Thu would you like to chat via email? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Stelter [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:43:41 03/20/25 Thu Sure: bstelter276@gmail.com [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:55:00 03/20/25 Thu Sent.....thanks! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: BB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:50:22 03/20/25 Thu Yes.... The flushed red face, deep frown, quivering chin and tears welling up expression of a young mr/miss about to be spanked. And when panties/underpants come down some get wide-eyed in disbelief, some clamp their eyes shut to block out the reality of being bared and others may covered their face - especially when not wanting to see any witnesses. Like Marcey said, draped over the lap, panic shows on grim faces blinking out tears then heads thrown up in wide eyed/mouth shock at how MUCH a bare bottom spanking stings! Then glimpses of anguish as they toss their heads back and forth, up and down, bawling/begging, eyes vacant as their whole world is their burning bare buns. And finally dancing howling, sweaty glowing red faces drenched in tears twisted in utter agony. I've seen and done all that but I can't understand how someone thouroghly spanked like that could do a spanking dance and NOT grab/rub their swollen behind - I always did! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: DD [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:41:03 03/20/25 Thu The kids next door were not allowed to grab or rub their burning fannies after a spanking, so their version of the spanking dance looked more like Riverdance. And they were not even Irish. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:25:36 03/22/25 Sat Yes, Macey, that look of SHOCK when my step daughter/step son got to the end of a spanking dance and realized the show they were putting on. Always spanked naked below belly button meant doing "the twist" and the "two step" all around the room wagging completely bare burning red buns and sometimes thrusting the pelvis out to exhibit whatever stage of puberty they were in. When wild-eyed howling turned to deep sobs suddenly the girl would glance around - GASP! And moan "no no no no" utter mortification plastered across her face. Her younger brother was more babyish, he'd squeal and prance around bawling WaWaWaaaWAAAA then "come to" and cover his bobbing penis chanting "Don't look! Don't look! Please don't LOOK AT ME!' Sound familiar? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:57:55 03/21/25 Fri I and would remind everyone if you are dealing with teens that point of realization that occurs when you are dancing around what is bouncing around for the entertainment of others that turns your face as red as your butt. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Jan's Uncle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:02:33 03/21/25 Fri I see my niece has posted here about last year when I was visiting. Jan and I are close and she informed me she posts here. She already talked about what happened so I will cut to the chase. My eyes were glued to her bare buttocks as I watched my brother-in-law skillfully applying his leather strap across her bare bottom. Both sides were red fron several strap marks. Then, as she mentioned, she turned her head and we made eye contact. She was absolutely horrified. I quickly exited. Later my sister really scolded me for spying. I have apologized to Jan and we have talked about it. I know I should not have stopped and looked but it was almost impossible to control myself. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Jan's Uncle ... Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:02:47 03/23/25 Sun Good of you to post. I don't think you can blame yourself for stopping and watching. It's not as if the door was closed and hearing the spanking you opened the door a crack and peeped in. Your brother-in-law presumably knew you were in the house and might see. Are there other occasions you were aware of Jan, or someone else in the family, getting the strap? Were you and your sister raised with spankings? I do hope you'll write again. In the meantime I certainly don't blame you for watching. I doubt Mork would have been as good as you were leaving when Jan saw you. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:12:42 03/21/25 Fri One incident I witnessed in a parked car had me focusing on the mom’s arm and hand, as I couldn’t believe the rapidity and force of her swats as I passed by the right door. She must have hit her boy 4-5 times per second. I wondered what he could have done to make mom deliver such a long and hard spanking? Now that I have raised this incident, what in others’ experiences giving or getting is the normal sps (spanks per second) rate of speed? If you received, which was worse, slower and harder or faster and longer but not quite so hard? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Larry-G [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:37:15 04/11/25 Fri Grumpy, wow that is pretty fast. When I was getting hand spanking on the bare. I would be over my mom's knee and she would focus on the sit spot on the lower center of my butt. Speed would probably vary at tines. Mostly pretty fast maybe one spank per second. My mom's other preferred method was belt spankings. Of course I got the brush and others on occasion. Hand spankings were usually longer then belt spankings. They probably lasted about 5 minutes. Harder but faster spanking usually hurt more. If it was a first time infraction I would get a longer but softer hand spanking but that was rare I would of preferred that. Belt spankings were shorter but harder which of course I hated but they were very effective. When it was time for a belt spankings I would stand facing the closet door in the front room once everything came off. I would bend over for the first half of the spanking which would last a minute or so but felt like a lifetime. Then after I was instructed I would stand straight up for the 2nd half of the spanking. Belt spankings lasted maybe 3 minutes. She would spank on my bare behind about every 2 or 3 seconds with the belt. Or course there was the hardest one I received for trying to run. That was much longer and harder then normal. I probably prefered the belt because it was shorter even though it hurt more. As my mom could still spank hard with just her hand. If you're interested in reading it there is a response the the focus area I posted a few responses up. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Jan R to Larry G [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:05:35 04/11/25 Fri Hi Larry, I'm currently 16 and I get it with my dad's oiled two tailed leather strap. I also must remove all clothing before getting up onto a table in his study to be strapped. That oiled leather on my bare is just absolute hell. The embarrassment of having to be fully nude at my age is overwhelming which is the discomfort that goes along with it. I have no doubt that my parents love me and are disciplining me when needed but God it's embarrassing and boy does that strap burn!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:23:14 04/11/25 Fri The belt spankings as described seem horrific. It seems to me that an over the knee hand or hairbrush spanking is sufficient for any age. When younger, the discomfort imparts the message. When older, the humiliation of being over a lap, especially a mom’s lap, would do the trick. I knew guys who would brag about having gotten it with a belt, but would never admit they had been over mommy’s knee. As to effectiveness, a girlfriend slapped two tones once and about 10-12 swats on her panties while she was over my knee brought tears to her eyes and calmed her down. What are others’ thoughts on this? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Larry-G [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:36:03 04/11/25 Fri I actually prefered the belt over the hair brush. The sting of the leather was actually less painful then a wooden brush [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Jeff D [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:09:56 04/12/25 Sat Like many of you, I was also focused on the face most of the time. As a teenager, my oldest sister typically started out either defiant or angry and that morphed into shock with the first few spanks. I guess there was always just enough time between her spankings that she was always underestimating how much it would hurt. After the shock wore off, the tears would start and then came the pleading followed by the promises. If the spanking went on long enough she'd get to the point of sobbing and you could see a sort of defeat or surrender to knowing she wasn't in control. Either way, when it was over she would jump in place a few times holding her butt with both hands and then her face would turn bright red with embarrassment as she seemed to suddenly realize she had an audience. My other sister usually looked terrified at first and she'd be pleading and trying to negotiate her way out of the spanking all the way until the first swat landed. The terror on her face changed into panic like something much worse than a spanking was happening to her. She also made a lot of noises for the first several swats as the tears started flowing. The more she cried the more desperate she seemed to look and she did a lot more kicking and squirming too. If it went on long enough she'd get to the point of exhaustion and I swear you could see the remorse in her eyes at that point. When it was over she'd hop/jump around in a circle trying to see her butt while fanning it with her hands and usually apologizing profusely as well. Then, like with our older sister, she'd suddenly realize she had an audience and her face would turn beet red. She'd also try to cover up with her hands and arms, but you could tell she knew it was too late to really matter. I always felt a bit uncomfortable and awkward seeing my sisters get spanked, but I was also completely fascinated by it. On the occasions where I witnessed my cousins get spankings I was able to enjoy it more because I had less sympathy for them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Lurker [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:20:17 04/13/25 Sun Jeff D - in the spankings you describe of your sisters, which parent is doing the spanking and which implement (if any) and position? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Jeff D [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:33:02 04/13/25 Sun Lurker, Either of our parents would give a spanking, but during those teen years I think it was most often our father doing the deed. Our parents had a small leather strap- 8 inches long and about an inch and a half wide- which was the most common implement. Our mother was also known to use a clothes brush or a wooden spoon that was part of an otherwise decorative set that hung on the wall in the kitchen. There was also a hefty rectangular paddle our father would sometimes use after starting out with the strap. Spankings were usually carried out in the over the knee/lap position. When the clothes brush or paddle was used my sisters usually had to bend over the back of a chair or bend down over the coffee table in the living room for those spankings. I also recall a few times when they had to bend over and touch toes for a spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Michael [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:42:49 04/13/25 Sun How long did these spankings last and how many spanks did they contain? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Jeff D [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:56:44 04/13/25 Sun Michael, The length of those spankings definitely varied a bit. I think for most part they were over with in a couple of minutes, but there were some that would drag on into the five or even ten minute territory due to the interruption of scolding or lecturing over the incident. Our parents didn't stop spanking when they were talking, but they did significantly slow the frequency of spanks during that part. Our parents didn't establish a set amount of time or smacks for a spanking. I think it would be fair to say they spanked until they were satisfied. If I had to guess, I would say the average spanking resulted in somewhere between 20 and 30 smacks. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Jan R to Jeff D [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:34:57 04/13/25 Sun Hello Jeff, I also get it with the leather strap. May I ask how much you and your sisters were required to remove before a spanking. Bent over touching your toes would be a very revealing position especially if not dressed. I would think, quite embarrassing. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Jeff D [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:44:26 04/13/25 Sun Hi Jan, The general rule was for spankings to be bare bottom. I was ten when I received my last spanking from our parents and that was still at a time when they adjusted our clothing themselves. For me that meant having my pants and underwear yanked down to my ankles before going over one of their knees for the spanking. It was more or less the same for my sisters at that time. As teenagers my sisters' spankings were usually a little more formalized and scheduled. But bare bottom was still very much the rule. The big difference is they were expected to bare themselves removing all clothing below the waist and usually waiting in a corner for up to a half hour before the spanking. There were some outlier situations where they got spankings more or less in the nude such as getting pulled out of the shower or bathroom for a spanking or when they were wearing a one-piece bathing suit. Also, the handful of times they were caught wearing what our parents considered an inappropriate outfit they were made to take everything off for the spanking. But for the majority of their spankings they had their top on or at least their bra. The touching toes position was relatively rare and the incidents of it I remember were all when we were away from home. I know my sisters considered those spankings to be extremely embarrassing, but more because they were spanked bare bottom in public than the touching toes position itself. I consider myself lucky that the last time I got a spanking in a public location, like a store or parking lot, I was only 7 or 8 years old. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Scott [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:26:02 04/13/25 Sun I relate very well to this thread. I grew in church culture; very much, “it takes a village” mentality. Being in a Christian community in the midwest , I witnessed many spankings, as well as my spankings were seen by many. I was spanked by my parents, as well, as friends parents. The youth pastor and Sunday school teacher. Overall, I was spanked often and into my late teens. It would be nice to discuss similar experiences with those of you who have experiences similar to mine. Trillian: Scott.t1000 Please contact me only if you have experiences similar to mine, to share. While I can understand, people are curious about other’s experiences, in general. I don’t find any interest in solely answering questions. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Jan R to Scott [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:31:39 04/13/25 Sun I'm currently 16 and although I don't live in a community like yours, my parents are very traditional meaning that I am indeed spanked. I would be happy to discuss our experiences here. It doesn't necessarily have to be just answering questions. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Jan R to Scott [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:52:43 04/14/25 Mon Hi Scott, So, what experiences would you like to discuss? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Scott [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:32:39 04/13/25 Sun I should clarify, in case I’ve given the wrong impression… when I said “ community” , I did not mean that literally. In the same sense as, IBLP or FLDS. I just meant, that I grew in church and was closely associated with many of the families there. My parents were friends with parents who had sons my age and we hung out etc [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: peterK68 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:23:53 04/15/25 Tue I grew up in a semi-rural church in the South & Sunday morning services went on forever. The only bright spot was a Social after with lots of treats & sweets. The downside was kids got fidgety & the place had no A/C. After the service there would be kids sitting on a bench either banned from the Social or waiting to head down the basement for a good spanking. Those on the bench avoided all eye contact & there were all ages waiting to take their medicine. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Robert to peter68 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:45:46 04/15/25 Tue I assume there were both boys and girls on the bench? Were there spanking implements in the basement? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Connie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:30:04 04/15/25 Tue My friend in jr high, Cari, used to get spanked by her dad in front of her stepmom and stepsister. He gave her long hard bare bottom hand spankings in their living room. She told me how much she HATED them watching her get spanked and how her stepsister would sit or stand behind her to see Cari's bare bottom turning redder and redder, her bare buns wiggling/twisting and seeing between her legs when she kicked them open. Meanwhile, her stepmom would sit right in front of Cari, smirking as she looked right at Cari's red scared face. "She liked to see me cry," Cari told me. "I tried to stop but it stings sooo much I can't!" So her stepmom took in the view of Cari's bawling face twisted in agony and humiliation. I felt sorry for her. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: peterK68 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:58:30 04/16/25 Wed There were no spanking tools in the basement but there was a brush or paddle in many purses to be used or loaned. There were boys & girls on the bench. The girls usually were taken to the far end of the basement while the boys were closer to the stairs. The place had very bright lights for a basement. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Lurker [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:34:36 04/16/25 Wed So there were kids of various ages waiting on the bench. What about their parents? Were they also nearby waiting or were there designated spankers doing all the work in the basement? How was the next kid called down or taken down? By their parent? Or take a number> - "Now serving number sixteen, 16 please!" [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: peterK68 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:31:39 04/16/25 Wed The parents handled it themselves in turn, there was a social going on, some went right to it, others had no sense of urgency. There were kids who just had to sit there & weren't allowed to party. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Lurker [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:33:29 04/16/25 Wed Were these mostly OTK? Mostly younger or older kids? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: peterK68 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:42:59 04/16/25 Wed It was over the knee so far as I knew, never saw anyone above middle school age. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Lurker [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:58:52 04/16/25 Wed Were you ever down there getting one yourself? If so what was the experience like? Were they ever bare or usually bare considering the public nature of the place? Could the spankings be heard from the bench? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: peterK68 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:23:49 04/16/25 Wed I was about 11 years old & my friend Brian's family came & sat near us during the service & we both got into laughing fits despite being warned multiple times. My mom took me to the basement after the service, it was a large space with many folding chairs down a long dark wooden staircase that made it so you could hear people coming. I was waiting with my pants around my ankles when I saw a girl from my school headed to the other end, we made eye contact, but we never spoke about it to the other. You couldn't hear any swats from upstairs, just the occasional protests & yelps. It seemed bare was the order of the day. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Lurker [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:36:01 04/16/25 Wed So you and that girl who was from your school got it at the same time in the same room? That just have been a noisy experience. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: peterK68 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:42:08 04/16/25 Wed I didn't count the house but it was more than just the two of us. There were cinderblock walls so a solid hit made a *ping* echo. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Lurker [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:44:01 04/16/25 Wed I meant your reactions and hers lol.... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: peterK68 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:52:52 04/16/25 Wed I wasn't listening for her, I was more concerned with my own fanny. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? to Connie Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:15:22 04/16/25 Wed There were times that my spankings were witnessed by aunts, uncles, etc. I was always really ashamed that they would look at my face for some reason. Once I got spanked after a date and had my makeup running down my face which for some reason was the worst embarrassment possible. The next worse thing was knowing that everyone could see my breasts jigging. I was spanked naked and having my tits show was worse than showing my butt. I can understand how you felt sorry for her. I felt sorry for my sister when she was punished. Did not feel that way watching my brothers get it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? to Connie Author: JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:48:33 04/17/25 Thu I remember I saw my dad staring at my sisters jiggling butt grinning while he spanked her as hard as he could. I am sure he did the same when spanking me. My butt was considerably larger and jiggled even more. (Not that I paid any attention to this during a spanking but it was a concern otherwise) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? Author: Connie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:29:30 04/16/25 Wed I remember looking like a crazed zombie with my mascara running down my red tear-wet cheeks, lip stick smudged, while looking in the mirror after a spanking. And flushing with embarrassment at thinking how people saw my face go from pale to flushed red to anguished crying to make-up smeared like a super sad clown! Sorry you got spanked naked. I can't imagine the embarrassment of having my boobs on display - like you said jiggling in front of people. Were you sensitive about the size of your breasts? I'm sensitive that one of my nipples is noticeably bigger than the other. My greatest embarrassment was having my front fur exposed. When I grew my first pubic hair I begged to keep my panties up and by the time I was 13 I had a full bush! I was slender and short so my dark brown pubic patch was prominent and always attracted attention. Bad enough when my panties were pulled down but I still blush thinking about doing spanking dances waving my bush around in front of an audience. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? To Connie Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:43:29 04/17/25 Thu Both I and my sister developed quickly. I was a 34-B by the time I was 16. It was strange that while I was covered up I wanted to show off how big I was. But when I was exposed I hoped I would appear smaller. We both bounced and jiggled obscenely, particularly during the spanking dance afterwards. This type of embarrassment was not limited to us. My older brother was much smaller than my younger brother. And this was clearly an issue for him as they were both hard before and after the spankings they got. But I was always less concerned about being naked before a spanking as was more worried about how much it was going to hurt. During my sole focus was on my burning butt. Afterwards it took a while before I could comprehend being naked in front of everyone and standing against the wall showing my red butt was better than some other alternatives. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: If you witnessed, what did you focus on? To Connie Author: Jan R to Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:47:32 04/17/25 Thu Hi Marcey, I'm pretty small up top 31B so mine don't really move when I'm getting the strap. Plus I'm also resting face down on the table. Although I am embarrassed being fully naked at the start, I'm soon shifting my concern when I feel dad resting that strap on my bare just before he begins. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]