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Subject: Re: Bare bottom spanking - age, frequency, method?

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Kristina to Liz

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Date Posted: 05:11:47 01/25/23 Wed
In reply to: Liz 's message, "Bare bottom spanking - age, frequency, method?" on 19:19:28 12/27/22 Tue

hello, that is certainly a good start down the road to good Godly discipline for the children. We spank bare over lap mostly just hand but do have spoon and hairbrush too. If squirming too much or kicking you can lock a leg over theirs
or gently pin their arm to the lower back. Hopefully in time they will learn to squirm less. Started around 3. I would love to talk more on email, give any advice I can!

>Hi all,
>
>New to the forum. I'm a mum of three - ages 4 to 9. I
>try to avoid spanking if at all possible, preferring
>to use chores, writing lines, confiscating toys and
>timeouts, instead.
>
>However, it's obvious that spanking is needed, if for
>no other reason than to enforce the other punishments
>when my kids don't comply with them.
>
>Generally, I spank over their pyjamas or their
>underwear, but for really serious misbehavior I give
>them what I call a 'pansdsowner' and spank their bare
>bottoms. This happens infrequently - say once a month.
>I use my hand to spank, but always make it worthwhile,
>a minimum of twenty slaps, progressing to forty as
>they mature.
>
>I like to reserve it as the ultimate punishment, and
>it always seems to do the trick. Just the threat of
>one when there's a hint of non-compliance usually
>results in them hastily changing their minds.
>
>My youngest son, who will turn five in March earned
>himself his first formal, bare bottom spanking this
>evening. He refused to obey my direction to tidy up
>his toys. I gave him two warnings, and then decided
>that it was time he learned his lesson.
>
>PJs down to his ankles, exposing his bare bottom, I
>placed him over my knee and gave him and gave him
>twenty hard slaps, slowly and methodically, allowing
>him to register each slap before applying the next. It
>took around a minute, maybe a little longer.
>
>It isn't easy, slapping an already reddened little
>bottom, when he's crying, begging and wriggling. But I
>feel it's necessary so that he understands real
>punishment is available. Hubby thought I was a bit
>mean, given his age.
>
>How do you spank? When did you start? How do you feel
>when they get to the wriggly, kicking stage?

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Subject	Author	Date
Second spankings do the trick!	Liz	22:52:52 01/27/23 Fri
Re: Second spankings do the trick! -- Kristina to Liz, 05:42:12 01/28/23 Sat Re: Second spankings and the possibility of a Third! -- Alfred22, 13:33:33 02/06/23 Mon