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Subject: Re: Babysitters and Discipline

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Cath to DadOf2

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Date Posted: 17:02:11 02/04/24 Sun
In reply to: DadOf2 's message, "Re: Babysitters and Discipline" on 12:46:53 02/04/24 Sun

Dear DadOf2,

Thank you so much for that note. It had my total attention and my husband's also. Great details. Alas, you stopped right in the middle with Jason being spanked! She was applying the paddle vigorously, Tommy was watching, fascinated, but then you stopped--never finished! Did Jason do a lively dance when she let him up? Did she take Jason in her arms and cuddle and kiss him before she gave Tommy his turn? Was Tommy also erected when she took him over her lap? Did she spank him with that paddle and get him crying just like she did with Jason? Did she give Jason lots of cuddles and kisses for being so honest about the smoking?

I know you probably stopped because you had lots to do and had to stop at that time--but please, DadOf2, if you can get a few minutes this evening or tomorrow, can you tell us how she finished up with Jason, and how she spanked Tommy, and how the kids reacted afterwards? My kids bawl the house down when Tom or I are spanking them, but very shortly after that they are in our arms being loved and comforted.

And by the way, Jimmie gets erected before every spanking he gets now, and he also gets erected when he watches either of his sisters spanked, and he almost always gets erected shortly after one of his spankings is over. I have had two different pastors (before our present one, who also agrees) assure me that since this is a natural and normal male reaction, this is not a sin nor is it "bad conduct" on the part of our son, so their advice was just treat it as a normal reaction and mostly ignore it--which it sounds like you do, DadOf2, and like Linda did as well.

So I was really glad to read your comments on that because this to me demonstrates a sensible, honest and acceptable way to deal with that situation when it arises. Male erections within the parameters of strict discipline in a family setting are neither something shocking nor even unusual, Rather they are an expected part of the reality of the use of strict discipline and should simply be treated as such.

At times after I have spanked Jimmy, and while I am holding and comforting him after he has had a spanking, he will get erected again, and I will typically just pass him a washcloth, give him a kiss and tell him to go on to his bed and take care of that--and he does, and that is all there is to it. No one in my family gets bent out of shape over what we all know is a normal and unavoidable reaction.

Tom and I are also very aware that girls (including mothers and spanking friends, like your Linda and our Annette), have similar excited and sensual reactions to giving or watching spankings, even though they don't have a flagpole to announce the arrival of such feelings--LOL! But again, these are not only normal and expected reactions, in the case of spanked female children they are a definite help to taking their discipline well, and in the case of spanking mothers and spanking female friends, they serve to encourage the women in such cases to do their duty by the children and do it well. I know Kristina understands this, and clearly Annette and Linda do.

So, please, DadOf2--will it help if I say pretty pretty please like I did before--pick up with Jason being spanked by Linda and give us the "rest of the story"--how he reacted when she let him up, how Tommy reacted when he got his spanking, and how they both reacted to Linda when it was over (did she give them both plenty of loving before you got home? did they crawl into her arms and hug and kiss her even though she just spanked the daylights our of them?)--details, please, good Sir--some of us feed on details.

AND DadOf2-WHAT WERE YOU AND LINDA DOING SMOKING!!!

NAUGHTY, NAUGHTY, NAUGHTY! DO I HAVE TO VISIT WHEREEVER YOU TWO ARE AND BRING MY LEXAN PADDLE?

Seriously, very glad that was out of the presence and knowledge of the kids. That is a prime bad habit to keep them away from.

Love to you, DadOf2, and truly--thanks for giving us the details you did provide about Linda and your kids.

Blessings to your family, Cath

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: Babysitters and Discipline	Kristina	17:32:31 02/04/24 Sun
Re: Babysitters and Discipline -- Cath to Kristina, 19:28:57 02/04/24 Sun Ya Cant Have Your Pudding If You Dont Eat Yer Meat! -- Kristina to Cath PLS READ ASAP (Disappointed), 20:06:40 02/04/24 Sun Re: Ya Cant Have Your Pudding If You Dont Eat Yer Meat! -- Cath to Kristina (Confused??), 14:58:07 02/05/24 Mon OH! You said toast not ROAST lol -- Kristina, 15:08:05 02/05/24 Mon Re: OH! You said toast not ROAST lol -- Cath to Kristina (Confusion Resolved), 21:38:31 02/06/24 Tue Re: OH! You said toast not ROAST lol -- Kristina, 22:12:54 02/06/24 Tue