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Subject: Re: cath you ok?

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Cath to Katrina

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Date Posted: 13:16:40 02/12/24 Mon
In reply to: Kristina 's message, "cath you ok?" on 04:48:53 02/12/24 Mon

>Hey Cath, we havent heard from you in a couple days,
>are you doing okay? :)

Hey, Kristina,

All is fine here, just very busy days right now. In addition to all the usual home tasks and needs, I spend a lot of time helping my husband with a number of non-business projects that he is involved with. These involve work related to organizations where he is a board member or Trustee or Director--and while I enjoy the work a lot (mostly writing materials for him and doing mailings to members on the various charitable and community projects he is involved with), the work eats up time like crazy.

I have many days I just can't get on my laptop at all for communications like ours. Just not enough hours in the day.

My three kids are doing wonderfully well. The bedtime spankings continue to make our evenings peaceful and enjoyable (for the parents--LOL), and they really do serve to help our kids unwind, quiet down, and go to sleep soundly after lots of hugs and kisses and cuddles from my Better Half and me, which means they wake up very rested the next morning and they are bright-eyed and bushy-tailed, and ready for school and other activities!

After long hard days for the parents, the evening spanking sessions and follow-up loving and comfort sessions with our three also serve to invigorate my husband and I and keep our spirits high. The emotional high we get from giving our three the discipline they need, and maybe especially those evening spankings at their bedtimes, definitely helps to keep our own spirits up and our love life fresh and exciting.

Daytime spankings for our three are frequent, but nowhere near as frequent, Katrina, as you seem to spank Katie and Matthew. It appears from your reports that your two usually get several spankings each most days, and apparently they thrive on that discipline, so good for you. Other discipline, like mouth soaping's are usually, with us, about once a week or so for our three, but not every day and sometimes twice a day or more as you find needed and effective with your two. Personally, I can't imagine giving more than one mouth-soaping in a day to one of my three, but you seem to do this regularly with your two and as you report that apparently works fine for you.

I do find that at least one day each week it works well for us if I give all three of mine an unplanned after school spanking when they arrive home and have their snack of typically milk and cookies. Taking all three into the living room for an unscheduled and unplanned hand spanking for each one, followed by a turn with the Lexan for each one, so I have three bawling kids on my hands, works very well to keep up their spanking frequency, which I have long found is a good idea with my kids, and it adds an exciting note to their discipline in that they never know for sure when they might be spanked. In my case, doing that at least once a week, does seem to help keep them all on their toes and on their best behavior--so that is working well for us.

And my husband tends to do the same on the weekends when he is home. An "on-the -spot" spanking from Daddy when he is home on weekends is something my kids are used to, and he especially tends to do this with Annie or Debbie. For example, he'll go in where the three kids are playing on their computers or phones and he'll take one of the two girls by the wrist and walk her to his favorite chair in the living room for an unplanned turn over his lap. And, of course, when he takes her wrist and heads for the living room, the girl knows right away what is going to happen, and the other two kids go right behind him to the living room to watch what they also know is about to happen--a good, sound spanking from Daddy.

What follows, of course, is a reminder spanking with his hand first and then the Lexan. Frequently, when he spanks one of the girls like that, I will take Jimmy over my lap for a similar spanking, so he doesn't feel left out--LOL--and often that will lead to my husband taking the other girl next for a similar turn--so all three end up getting and unplanned reminder spanking! The truth is, both of the girls and Jimmy are used to those "on-the-spot" spankings, which they have been getting since they were young and preschooler's, and so all three take those spankings very well--lots of crying and dancing, but then lots of hugs and kisses right after.

After a good hard cry, and an hour or two to fully recover, the girls and Jimmy are always right back in top form and in good spirits and on those days we'll often go out somewhere as a family for a nice lunch or a good dinner at one of their favorite restaurants.

So, Katrina, don't worry when you don't hear from me for days at a time, or when I only get a chance to post a few short notes here and there. As I say, I am having very busy days with the three kids and the writing and mailing work I do on special projects for my husband, so often social computer time is really hared to come by.

Love to read your updates, and would love to see more posts from others telling us all how things are going with them.

Love to you and all contributors, Cath

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Re: cath you ok?	Kristina	23:58:49 02/12/24 Mon