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Subject: Re: cath you ok?

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Kristina

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Date Posted: 23:58:49 02/12/24 Mon
In reply to: Cath to Katrina 's message, "Re: cath you ok?" on 13:16:40 02/12/24 Mon

Glad you are doing well Cath and family!
Yes Believe me back in the day I never would have thought Id discipline as much as I do, but after encouragement from friends and the church community, I tried it out and am very pleased with the results.

Note Cath, I give a couple FULL punishment spankings a week , the ones that I am okay with giving as many per day as needed, are what i call "onthespot" spankings, usually. These dont use the whole routine, no lecture, no corner, just quickly bare and give twenty or thirty spanks usually just with hand and then go on with the day.

Just something to think about and discuss with the hubby, I'm not THAT mean to give full punishments every day hehe
But I can tell you this approach, the kids are far more accepting and understanding their discipline alot better. It has become more normalized in their lives, and thats how it should be, no big deal just a part of growing up.

Soaping again I never thought I would do this often, but perhaps to get up to that point if you are considering it with your own due to how helpful I find it, heres a link to
Thrills gum. Its effective, I use it with mine at times instead of a soaping. Or a tiny dollop of hot sauce on the tongue can work but my son loves hot sauce lol

https://www.amazon.com/Thrills-Chewing-Gum-10-Count/dp/B00EELO8KE

The after school paddlings sound perfect! and you just spring it as a surprise? Do you find they focus harder on homework ?

The way they act with Daddy is soooo adorable, do you think they know that them crying is a good release for them and bonding but also helps daddy with stress if he had a bad day at work?

Daytime spankings for our three are frequent, but nowhere near as frequent, Katrina, as you seem to spank Katie and Matthew. It appears from your reports that your two usually get several spankings each most days, and apparently they thrive on that discipline, so good for you. Other discipline, like mouth soaping's are usually, with us, about once a week or so for our three, but not every day and sometimes twice a day or more as you find needed and effective with your two. Personally, I can't imagine giving more than one mouth-soaping in a day to one of my three, but you seem to do this regularly with your two and as you report that apparently works fine for you.

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