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Subject: How we spank our kids


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Siobhan
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Date Posted: 15:44:21 03/17/24 Sun
In reply to: Samantha 's message, "Tips to help my daughter keep in position" on 12:03:02 03/16/24 Sat

My husband and I always punish our daughters together. They are 7-10-13. The oldest is always putting on a show that this time she will resist the spanking. So far, she has yet to win, and it only earns her bonus strokes.
It is quite simple actually. My husband sits at the end of the sofa. I ask my daughter to bend over the arm, so she lands with her chest on daddy’s lap, and her bottom is nicely elevated on the high, soft armrest.
My husband always pulls our daughters a bit forward, until they no longer can feel the floor under their feet. He also holds their hands away from their bottoms and keeps them in place. My husband is the gentlest man I know, but when it comes to spanking, he lacks delicacy. We prefer that I do the spanking, simply because this way we can prolong the punishment.
Administrating spankings is quite relaxing for me. I can punish my daughters for as long as necessary without having to hold them down. Their bottoms stay in position no matter what I do to their bottoms.

I want to also tell you that my husband volunteers in our church, and with few other dads and our amazing Pastor, they have organised a gentlemen club. The name is quite charming If I may say. We live in a small town, and most folk know one another. In our church community we have few boys that are raised without their fathers duo to different reasons.
I cannot tell you enough how much it means for those boys to have a role model in their lives. Dads teach them various activities. They are not boring chores, but a viable life lesson. From things as simple as tying a tie and changing a light bulb to even restoring our church or helping the mothers that clearly need some help at their houses. One of the dads is a renowned carpenter and he even teaches his profession to the boys.
What is most important is that the boys who lost their fathers, are given so much attention, and are being kept out of trouble.
Where I am going with this is that after years of spending so much time together two boys who are now 13 and 14, are almost a part of our family. We have shared a lot of wonderful memories with them and their moms.
Many times, it is difficult for those moms to punish these boys accordingly. They are good boys, they know they cannot resist their moms, even when they are being punished. I understand though, it simply hurts them too much, and they often break free during their spankings at home.
On many occasions I have spanked these boys with my husband’s help. I always make sure to spank them thoroughly. Their mothers have given us an enormous token of trust to discipline them properly, and I do my best to fulfill the role.
The boys are always spanked severely. I make sure to make the most of their spankings. They are much stronger than our girls are, and I understand why it may be difficult to properly spank them when their moms have no one to help them.
I just want you to know that they are not a match for my husband’s loving embrace, and despite their yelling and crying I never cease their spankings until I am fully satisfied with the results.
The boy’s punishment is always further enhanced by watchful eyes of our daughters, who would have never skipped the show.

When I soothe and cuddle them in my arms, I think of them as my sons I have never been blessed with.

Samantha, I do not know your situation, and I would have hated to pry. I hope that my post, although quite lengthy, will be of some help to you.

Also, hello everyone. My name is Siobhan, and we have three wonderful daughters. My husband and I believe in a proper discipline. In our spare time we love to spend time with our children, and we often engage in many activities. I believe that we have been blessed with many wonderful things. I love my husband, I love my children, I love the time we have together. I have many wonderful friends, and our town, although small, is almost like our family. I believe that it is because there is only a single church… which can give you an impression how small our community is. The building is quite old, but I believe that all the little things and renovations we do have made this place special.
Which is also why we volunteer and engage in plenitude of events. I do feel connected to the community that I am part of. Together we can fill our children’s days with many wonderful attractions that they absolutely love and enjoy.
Well, Thank you for having me.

Best wishes, Siobhan

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Re: How we spank our kidsSamantha10:49:06 03/18/24 Mon
Re: How we spank our kidsTerrence20:55:15 03/18/24 Mon
Re: How we spank our kidsCynthia10:05:33 04/02/24 Tue


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