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| Subject: Re: New thread to talk about our parenting and some questions! | |
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Author: Kristina to Amy (Happy and Blessed) |
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Date Posted: 07:08:37 12/22/22 Thu In reply to: Amy to Kristina 's message, "Re: New thread to talk about our parenting and some questions!" on 03:37:17 12/22/22 Thu I think we think alike as well and a good place to vent. There have been times where before having to spank I was emotional and nearly in tears, had to ask God for his strength to do what had to be done. What do you say to them during a maintenance discussion to help them accept it better and help them build character etc. I guess, what is your procedure during those come to Jesus meetings? Do you have any ideas what I could say and how to word it with younger children? You talk about the girls learning to take discipline stoically, and quietly, which is wonderful that they don't fight the procedure, I do let mine hold a stuffed animal to work on training them not to reach back. But you may want to reassess the minimal noise part, Of course not screaming and howling, but encouraging loud crying I think is good for them, to get all those emotions and possible guilt out. Plus for the one waiting their turn, it will be a good added lesson for them to hear how well the spanking is working. How does a maintenance differ from a punishment session? Mine are younger and just learning with all of this, maintenance only started a year ago. I know they are young, but train up a child when they are young ... you know the verse. So when asking for discipline, they do need some prompting. "DO you have something to ask mommy?" "y-yes mommy" "go ahead sweetheart" "mommy please spank me" "Since you asked so nicely, I can do that. But where does mommy spank?" "spank me on my bottom" "thats right, on the BARE bottom, now please ask mommy to spank your bare bottom" "please spank my bare bottom mommy" Then I praise him and say how brave they are. Get them in position and say we do this because we love you, the bible says mommy and daddy do it this way. I ask if they're comfortable (as much as they can be) before we start I am sure the girls will be tempted to roll their eyes when you use the warm bottom phrase lol but of course sounds like they wouldn't dare risk doing that :) Do you have anything you do on Christmas as far as maintenance etc. I know some parents do. And thank you, but no, God bless all of you ladies for being so kind and sweet and talkative here! I have a few church mom friends who believe in discipline, but not many online and it can be lonely with Mark away so much. Maybe we could become email friends as well, Amy? You mentioned the "spanking room" at church, how often have you visited it with the girls? What is the room like? You also said "girls are spanked in front of the assembled attendees in much more formal sessions." That is rare, and can only be done in a smaller close knit church, am I right? How does that work and for what offences? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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| Re: New thread to talk about our parenting and some questions! | Amy | 14:50:19 12/22/22 Thu |
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