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Author: Jen |
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Date Posted: 06:21:12 05/29/24 Wed It’s been a while since I gave a long update. The boys, Charlie 5, Nick 7, and Henry 10, have been doing great with their First Time Obedience (FTO). They say “yes mommy” when their name is called, maintain eye contact, smile and obey immediately while smiling. We are now allowing Henry to appeal any order by asking, “may I please appeal?” If we say yes then he can state his appeal. If we say no then he must follow the order. Nick and Charlie are not allowed to appeal yet. Henry (10) - Henry has been doing good. He got good grades this year wrapping up 4th grade. He is playing baseball and soccer. He will be attending a day camp this summer. He is finally dry at night and stopped wearing Goodnites a couple of months ago. As I mentioned earlier he is doing good with FTO and is now allowed to appeal commands. He is averaging two spankings per month. Nick (7) - oh Nick! He’s my difficult guy. But he’s also my most lovable. He loves to cuddle and hug and kiss. He is also playing baseball and soccer. He just finished first grade with pretty good grades. I’ve written before about his bathroom issues; bedwetting, peeing his pants, skid marks, etc. He was wearing Pull-Ups at home and was on a potty schedule at school. We worked really hard this year on these issues with rewards and punishments we were able to get him dry and clean during the day. He stopped wearing his Pull-Ups (still wears a diaper at night). Unfortunately that ended over Memorial Day weekend. I noticed he was wearing different shorts from what I dressed him in. He claimed to have spilled juice on them and changed. Nope, the truth is he peed and hid the shorts and underwear. He was spanked for lying and given two weeks in diapers for hiding the wet clothes. We went to the lake over the weekend and he even had to wear a Huggies Little Swimmer diaper under his swimsuit. He’s obviously not happy about this but he hasn’t put up a fight so there’s been no additional punishments like baby bottles, pacifiers or spankings. Charlie (5) - he’s the quiet one. He’s playing soccer and will be entering kindergarten. We are working hard on FTO with him. He’s young and still learning. But its results in a lot of punishments. He wet at night and wears a diaper too. He’s pretty good about daytime accidents, unlike Nick, but still occasionally wears a Pull-Up for long road trips for a just in case. On Saturday he did earn some pacifier time. On the drive home from the lake he was whining and complaining and just being bratty. I gave him a pacifier and told him he will be spanked every time it left his mouth. He kept it in his mouth like a good boy! It’s funny, on the way home from the lake we stopped at Chick-fil-A for dinner. I told Charlie to keep his pacifier in while there. So we are standing in line and my 7 year old has that distinct boxy diaper butt under his basketball shorts and my 5 year old has a pacifier in his mouth. Needless to say we got a couple of odd looks. Anyway, all 3 have 8:30 bedtimes and daily chores over summer break too. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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| Re: Family Update | Kristina to Jen (Proud of you) | 07:06:37 05/29/24 Wed |
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